Then we found out that we were having four children:
With Dr. C, a few days after finding out about the quads
You had no previous experience with children, so when the babies came, you were subjected to a crash course in fatherhood. You handled the NICU like a pro. As soon as we were allowed to touch the babies, you learned how to cradle them in your arms:You were instantly worried about me, worried that I was too small to carry these babies. And you were equally concerned for the babies themselves. As I got bigger, you did everything you could to keep me off my feet—even though sometimes I did not want to listen!
After I went into the hospital, you were there for me every evening and weekend, helping me to do basic things like eat, shower, and stay sane. Without you, I could not have carried these babies for as long as I did!
After I went into the hospital, you were there for me every evening and weekend, helping me to do basic things like eat, shower, and stay sane. Without you, I could not have carried these babies for as long as I did!
... how to give a bottle to a baby that was still learning to suck:
... and how to burp a tiny baby that couldn't hold her head up:
Then, when it was time for the babies to come home, you were the one who buckled them safely into their car seats:
In the months since the babies came home, you've grown more and more comfortable as a father of four. The hours are long, but the rewards are great:
You now know there's nothing like making your baby smile:
Cuddling with Jude
Or being greeted first thing in the morning by a sweet little face that's so happy to see you:
The babies know you and love you. When you talk, they listen (for now, anyway!):
And they count on you to teach them new skills:
Demonstrating to the girls how to burp a baby
Showing Isaac what a lawnmower looks like
(so that he can take over lawn duty someday!)
Like any good dad, you occasionally even encourage them to try new foods:Showing Isaac what a lawnmower looks like
(so that he can take over lawn duty someday!)
Most impressively, you have learned to multitask like nobody's business:
Entertaining Jude while feeding Lucy
Taking a phone message while holding Isaac
Feeding Isaac and Dahlia at the same time
Taking a phone message while holding Isaac
Feeding Isaac and Dahlia at the same time
And after all you do for our family, you amazingly still have enough energy left to get dressed up and take me out on a date once in a while:
You truly are a Super Dad. I love you, Ted, and I couldn't do this without you. Happy Father's Day!
Wow, what a tribute! You are both doing a wonderful job and have BEAUTIFUL children! Happy Father's Day, Ted! Carmen Howell :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful message to your husband!! The pictures are all so cute too! It is a blessing to have a wonderful husband and adorable kids!
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What a nice post, Suzy! Happy Father's Day to Ted! I'm sure it is a special day for him (and you as well).
ReplyDeleteAwww...what a great post! Ted you ARE a wonderful daddy and hubby!
ReplyDeletePhilippians 4:13 --- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
You (both of you) surely proved (and continue doing so) this to be true!
I cannot believe how long I haven't seen you ... after this month is over, I will come by to see y'all, if you like it or not! :)
What a great reminder of how awesome dads can be. And, you've been blessed with a great one in Ted. :-) Happy First Father's Day, Ted!!!!
ReplyDeleteAwww! Great post Suzy. Happy Father's Day Ted...we're still waiting to see you in that "Super Quad Daddy" shield!! :o) We can't wait to see all of you next weekend!
ReplyDeleteStaci
Love this post, Suzy. Truly moving stuff. Ted = rad. (Lord, I'm from the wrong era.) Happy Father's Day x 4 to him, for sure!
ReplyDeleteAwesome tribute! Also love the pics. Becky
ReplyDeleteI originally found your blog through another one that I read regularly, and I've so enjoyed reading about your journey. Then I saw this post, and WOW, I realized I must be living close to the same city as you, since Dr. C is my specialist as well! I'd love to "chat" with you sometime!
ReplyDeleteAww what a wonderful diary of dad's first few months!!
ReplyDeleteHappy Father's Day Ted! Lucy, Dahlia, Jude, and Isaac are very lucky to have you in their lives.
This was a beautiful post... those babies get cuter every day!
ReplyDeleteSuzy & Ted~~ You don't know me, but I read your blog through a friends blog of mine. It was just lovely. When I reached the end of your blog there you were Suzy, with JUST the stroller that I am looking for! My daught and son-in-law just had triples, they are 3 months old now. We are trying to find a way to take them places with a stroller that works well. Can yhou give us some info on it, please. If you can find a few minutes. Thank you, Cheryl
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Hehe and we thought twins were difficult! God bless and keep the smiles going =)
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